CLARITY DOES NOT HAPPEN WHEN WE ARE LOST IN DOING
I am amazed at how many women still don’t understand the importance of ‘’having a crystal clear mind’’ clarity.
Especially, when it comes to creating the life we want and achieving goals, it is almost impossible to do that if you don’t have a crystal clear mindset.
And this is probably the hardest things for humanity right now, with all the information and manipulation around us.
We are surrounded by ads, people telling us what to do, where to look at, what to eat, what to wear, how to live…
How is it even possible to have a crystal clear mind?
I am someone who is dedicated to her path and determined to create all she wants in life. That is why I joined tens of different self improvement and self mastery courses in the past 25 years. I started as a no brainer. Literally, I was not clear about what I wanted, who I was or where I was going in life. I too, like most of you reading this right now, was lost inside a bubble of ‘’how to live life masterfully rules’’. All self mastery gurus out there were saying almost the same things. Set goals, stay in action, be determined, be tough of yourself, get stronger… And the more I did what they said, the more unfulfilled, unhealthy and depressed I got. Something was not working…
What was not working was that I was not a man. And all of those techniques, methods, information out there were created by man. With good intentions of course and they had great methods for men, which did not work for me at all. The more I tried, the worse depressed I got.
At one point, with all that ‘’trying to achieve, setting goals, working hard’’ I was in burn-out syndrome without even noticing it. I remember thinking ‘’maybe this is part of the journey’’ because everything seemed as if it was part of the self mastery journey at that time… At least, I was told it is…
And it wasn’t!
I was wrong.
My male friends in those courses were all doing great! Manifesting, building their businesses, wealth, health, relationships. They were growing and expanding in all areas of life by doing what they were told. They were so focused, on track, dedicated and were really really tough on themselves, which was obviously working amazingly, while I was wreck!
I was tired, unhappy, very very upset at myself for not being on track when it comes to actions plans and goals and I was really angry. I was angry at myself, my life, my relationships did not work, because I was this woman, trying to build more and more strength, becoming more and more tough on herself, which was leading to being more and more rigid, men-like, and I was literally arguing with every man that ever came into my life. So my relationships did not work, my business either, I was losing money, self confidence and my health…
Then one day, I decided to STOP. I started doing meditation and breathwork everyday for at least an hour.
With all the conditioning I had, ‘’set goals, focus, work hard, get tough’’ it was really really hard at first. But the more time I spent with myself, the less work I did, and the more I stopped and went within, the better things got. Everything started shifting in my life. I became clear about who I was, what I wanted, where I was going and the best thing is the more I stopped, the more valuable I got. My business started booming, without me working too much or setting goals or staying in track, but by visualizing what I want. I started using my creative power, The Sacred Feminine Energy was there within me, shaping my reality, the way my heart always wanted.
I had more self confidence, better health, and started having more clarity.
And I understood. CLARITY DOES NOT HAPPEN WHEN WE ARE LOST IN DOING.
It is a by product of our being and it is there for all of us, only to be experienced when we stay in silence and connect with ourselves.
The reason many women don’t have clarity or don’t know what they want in life is because they don’t stop and go within.
It is the same thing for men but know that, men can stay in action and still be focused and clear while women lose their clarity if they don’t stop and go within.
So if you are a woman reading this right now and you are wondering what is wrong with your life, it is you trying to function with man-made methods, that does not work. We are women. We are not manifestos. The word man-ifestation starts with ‘’man’’. We are creators. Like our bodies create babies, we are here to use our creative energy to the fullest and create the life we dream of. Which only happens when we learn to connect with who we are.
Awakening The Goddess is all about that.