This question has been the quest of human kind for centuries…
Before we start discussing what love is, I would like to state that TRUE LOVE and the love that causes young have butterflies in your stomach are very very very different.
True Love is not what we experience when we desire, want, go mad over an individual. What people in the Western World refer as ‘’love’’ is actually DESIRE, not True Love. And DESIRE is not something to look forward to…
True Love is directly or indirectly associated with and encompasses universal laws, including the primary law of ONE AND MANY. You can read my article ‘’Universal Laws’’ to learn more about The Fundamental Law of the universe, which all science is based on, The One and The Many.
True love wise the synthesis and synchronicity of all complementary opposites. What you may have previously assumed to be love was probably ‘’the dopamine driven, romantically attractive, infatuating pole of any or all complementary opposites, which I call ‘’the butterfly effect’’. You start feeling butterflies in your stomach, you cannot eat, work, concentrate, stay cool or calm. Because of the dopamine your body releases, you want to lick and suck the other (whomever you are infatuated with) and can’t think of anything else but their ‘’fabolous ass’’. :))
And I am not even joking!
You start telling your friends and family that ‘’you have found THE ONE’’, who gives you energy, motivation, a reason to live. And he/she is GREAT! just great, right? No flaws. Because you do not see any. They are the perfect match. They are the best!
And the FANTASY goes like… ’’I found the love for me… My one and only…’’
BLIND LOVE they say…
You are blind, because you don’t see their truth. You seem to only look at ‘’the best parts’’ they have and not see the mistakes, the flaws, the terrible, painful, idiotic part of them. You think they don’t ever fart right? :))
…And when they do…
Oh boy! When they do fart… Your whole world cracks!
Because you have been seeing their positive sides and were blind about the negatives, you were not actually seeing them, you were seeing your ‘’fantasy’’… And you cannot go on living a fantasy. Life wakes you up eventually. And whoever fantasies the most, wakes up with pain and suffering.
Do you remember the first time you saw THE DEMON in your ANGEL?
You though he/she was an angel but he comes the reality…They do ‘’the thing, the one thing you hate the most’’, right?
Because every infatuation has to be balanced with the same amount of disgust…
The Law Of Polarity.
The Law Of Polarity is the principle that everything has two ‘’poles’’. As I explained in my blog ‘’Understanding Yin and Yang’’, everything in the universe is made up of 2. Good and bad, love and hate, angel and devil, attraction and disconnection. Think of North and South Poles on a globe or a battery with its negative and positive terminals. Everything in the universe has an opposite. Everything is dual.
According to The Law Of Polarity, things that appear to be opposites are actually two inseparable parts of the same thing. The more ‘’opposites’’ we see, the more polarised and bias we are… Because in reality, what we perceive as opposites are the two poles of ‘’the same thing’’…
That is why, you cannot get rich if you don’t understand the poor and you cannot earn money if you haven’t lost money. You cannot succeed before you have failed and cannot grow before shrinking…
Think of hot and cold, they are actually on the same continuum and you cannot have one without the potential for the other. They are ‘’potentials of each other’’ not opposites.
And you think think about anything you want to manifest with its polar part. I teach wilingly being ready to lose money in order to earn more, willing being ready to fail thousands of times so that you can succeed.
‘’I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning what and missed. I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succed.’’ says Micheal Jordan, one of the best basketball players in the world ever.
Imagine a child, learning how to walk. Does he/she quit just because he/she fell down maybe thousands of times? No. Of course not. That is how you grow.
IF YOU WANT TO GROW AND SUCCEED IN ANYTHING IN LIFE, YOU NEED TO LOOK FORWARD TO FAILING. THOUSANDS OF TIMES.
I have failed, lost money, lost friends, colleagues, family members, hundreds of times. People I trained, supported for years, literally stole my trademark signature programmes and started doing imitation programmes, I have had coaches stealing my clients, gossiping and lying about me, doing things other people called ‘stabbing from my back’ and yet I kept on growing and expanding. These did not hurt or ruin me, they made me stronger.
Once you understand how The Law Of Polarity works, you can easily manifest anything you want in life. And yet, many people stay in their biases and their little fantasy worlds, not having what they want in life…
Remember, all the other laws of the uıniverse (like the law of attraction) only work when you are true to yourself, connected with both polars and experiencing True Love.
Our heart and mind opens up to unlimited possibilities when we experience the synthesis and syncronicity of all complementary opposites.
IN YOUR LIFE;
Whatever you haven’t loved is repeated until it is loved.
Whatever you haven’t loved runs your life until you do.
Whatever you hold back holds you back.
Whatever you resist persists.
Whatever you bury inside of you buries you.
Whatever you condemn you breed, attract or become.
Whatever you infatuate with you undermine.
You won’t be able to escape what you have not truly loved, or what you still have hidden within your cave of emotional darkness, for True Love just may be your ultimate enlightenment and teleological purpose, the intuitive integration of all disowned and deflected parts.
It is actually irrational and unfilling not to truly love, synthesise and synchronise all complementary opposites. The only rational thing you will know is what little objective reason you have. Which is equanimity. When you discover how irrational you are when you emotionalise your subjective rality and not love, you make way for an opening of your mind and heart and true mental growth. And I am looking forward to see that happen, around the second night of The Miracle Course… 🙂
When you truly love, you become inwardly present and outwardly expand your space and time horizons or spheres of awareness and influence. Your true love is your ultimate growth and development factor. Your true love transcends even the dialectic of your subjectivity emotional opinions or conjectures….